but it really is all perspective. people take that lightly, like i'm some sort of flake. they can't see the forest through the trees when i say that. you sing your own song, you dance your own dance, you are truly the creator of your life. if you focus on negative things then you draw more negative things into your life. it's the law of attraction. it's simple, and even scientific (for those who think science is the way to go for beliefs).
if you focus on negative relationships, or lack of money or bills, bills, bills...that's what you'll get more of. your thoughts become words, your words become actions, it becomes your reality. you can manifest anything based on your mind. if you go around complaining (bitching, moaning...choose whatever word you like), about how you don't have any money, that is focusing on what you do NOT have, focusing on what you do not want...your perspective is on what you do not want...but your words become your reality. so if you say over and over you don't have it (in this case, money), then that is what you create...MORE of not having money. or if you say oh i don't want such and such in my relationship, then you actually create more of what you don't want. so see, it really IS all perspective. if you look at life instead in terms of what you do have, of what you do want, and visualize yourself having what you want and visualize how you will FEEL having it, the universe, which is comprised of energy (the stars, moon, ocean, us...all energy, all the SAME energy), cannot help but get to work on bringing it to you. this is why perspective is so utterly important, yet people seem to brush it off as if it's some silly, ridiculous, frou frou, mystic bullshit. but it's not. it's everything.
dreams are not only important to make sure you have a reason to get up every day and have something to shoot for...they're important because of the visualization of what you want. focusing on those things that you want most and imagining/visualizing yourself already having them will bring them to you. haven't you ever noticed that the more you focus on negative things, the more negative things seem to happen? i've been negative lately...and y'know what? the dishwasher broke, then my eye glasses broke, i was overcharged and therefore my bank account overdrawn. all in about a week's time. it was unreal. i had forgotten about being thankful for what i do have, forgot about focusing on the positive. forgot about drawing those things i want in my life to me.
it's all about gratitude and attitude. you have a choice. we all do. if you focus on what you want in a relationship, that is what you create in that relationship. if you visualize your success (whatever success means to you) that is what you will draw to yourself. i remember when i first moved out. i didn't even have furniture, much less money to pay bills or food, but i envisioned my place with furniture. i wasn't so specific on design, but i visualized a couch (oh, i'll get a couch and this is where it will go, and so on). within 2 weeks of moving out, i had a couch, and a table, and an entertainment center, a tv, a dresser for my boys, lamps, blankets, pots and pans, utensils. it happened. people came out of the woodwork so to speak and supplied me with what i requested, with what i visualized...and it can happen again. we have the capacity to create whatever we choose to create.
i believe it was Thomas Edison who said, "if we did everything we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves." he was absolutely right. it really is all perspective. choose gratitude, choose your attitude (make it a good one), and choose your life. choose it. because you can. you are more than capable and equipped to do this. try it. you can see for yourself. life is meant to be enjoyed, it is meant to be lived, you are meant to fall in love with yourself and your life. it's why you are here. you won't be disappointed.
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